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Nathan's avatar

Nice essay at the end. We tend to focus on the bullies, in our chronically pessimistic society, but my childhood experiences mirrored the author’s. One popular, socially well adjusted child repeatedly made efforts to be my friend, inviting me and encouraging me to play sports I didn’t think I would enjoy. I never understood why. I still don’t and I still think about it. People can be good, children especially, and I’m afraid that we increasingly prevent them from doing their part in knitting society together, for fear of the rarer ones who would do harm.

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Deep Turning's avatar

Really great Back Pages this time.

A friend put it (with un-PC cruelty) as "cyberspace allows the weird to congregate virtually in a way they couldn't in real life" -- the socially awkward who would be better off learning to get more comfortable socially, the conspiracy theorists who need a more normal crowd to hang out and explore reality with, the depressed and anxious doomscrolling on their phones, and many others.

And it's not as if Tourette's syndrome (a neurological disorder) and dissociation (the core of psychological trauma) aren't real. They're just rare in spontaneous form. Apparently, social media can artificially induce far more on an industrial scale. Social media is magic!

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